http://BacksideOfLove.com

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romantic discipline
Priceless Love

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reParenting

Little Miss

 

 
An Invitation

You know how hard it can be to find people that really get these headspaces, and who believe in it enough to want others to live it too

So if you know someone else who'd enjoy this page, then let them know!

(We're going to pass this off to your email program when you click SEND, so no one's email address will be known or stored, let alone given to anyone else, which we consider to be pretty greasy of other places to do!)

 

 

 

 

 
 

the profound gift of personal authority,   the trust of CP to enforce it,   and the intimacy of living it every day
 
Getting Started


Quick-Start Guide for the Backside of Love

WHAT, WHO, HOW, WHERE WHY and HELP!  This is a quick-start thumbnail guide to get you going right away. Please also check out the Welcome Center* so you know the rules, and where to get further help


WHAT...

...this is: The Backside of Guardian Island is a virtual community (on a virtual Island) which includes a live community (the Kittery), a monthly magazine (the Backside of Love), and a website (BacksideOfLove.com), among other things. They all exist to explore the , which is what we call any relationship includes the giving of some measure of authority to another, the CP to enforce it, and a sexuality running through all of it, via our community, and quality fiction and non-fiction from people who actually live these lives, 24/7.

...this is not: A personals site, dating site, cyber-sex trolling ground, porno site, or anything at all to do with kids, "barely-legal" or teen sleaze.
 


WHO

Basically, we are a RL couple (Carolyn Faulkner and Unka Bobby) who live various flavors of the , 24/7. We've both written about the most moving and arousing aspects of these concepts most of our life, and met as mutual fans. It seemed inevitable that we would work up some project into which we could throw our profound passion and dedication to the emotionally-healthy (as well as impressively arousing!) relationships that this kind of lifestyle permits.  [more...]


HOW to get around

* The Kittery  is a virtual building divided into sections, with individual rooms of a similar theme in each section.

* Stroll through the Kittery and get familiar with what's here by clicking the HOME button, the left-most of the blue horizontal menu on the left, just under our logos at the top of any page, and then paging down. This will show you all of the rooms into which you are permitted (some are private areas for particular groups of residents).

* Jump to specific places more quickly with the drop-down nav menus. Along the bottom of the picture of the Kittery (top-right of every page) are the main types of activities you can jump to here (READ/PLAY/DISCUSS/HELP/etc). Hover your cursor over any of these, and a drop-down menu will appear, with a list of various areas on the Backside where you can find that sort of activity.
 


WHERE

If what you're most interested in is talking to other people about these things, then hop over to the Kittery, where people are gathered to discuss and play, in forums and in chatrooms.


If you're more shy, or just an avid reader, then you'll find lots of delicious fiction and articles on our umbrella themes in the Library.


If you're into writing about all of this yourself, and would like to find other authors, and avid readers who are clamoring for your stuff, then maybe the Backside Writers Guild would be fun for you.


And if you're looking for something not covered there, are lost in general, or have questions or comments for us, then please feel free to contact us.


HELP

There are several kinds of help available to you here. Newcomers should start in the Welcome and Help area of the Kittery (you may have come here, from there). Please look through the FAQs and welcome notices, because they do include information you need in order to enjoy yourself here.

In addition, there are pointers to documentation available on the bottom-ish-left side of all pages here in the Backside's Support Site.

If you've looked through the available welcome and help text, and still have a problem, please visit the Hall Monitors public room, where the Kittery moderators can be found. Check out the questions already answered first, but if yours isn't among them, feel free to start a new thread there posing your question. It will be answered promptly!

(In addition, any person with the words "Hall Monitor" over their avatar on their posts may be PM'd with a link that's under the avatar, and will gladly help you out if they can).


And finally, if all else fails, you're welcome to PM me (Unka Bobby), as I'm afraid I handle the running of things and the technical details.

 

 


 

 

 

 


 

 




updated: 07/21/2005 02:11 PM