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you're reading this, we
know two things about
you. You're on the Net,
and you probably find
some unspeakably
powerful and
hard-to-define
headspaces absolutely riveting, and
(if you're anything like
us) more fascinating and
delicious than almost anything else you've
ever found.
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The
Backside is overseen by your
humble hosts, Carolyn
Faulkner and her Unka Bobby.
We've
both lived these powerful
lifestyles and needs most of our
lives, and written about
them for years. This project
is an extension of
everything we feel and
experience every day, in our
private life.
If
delving into the real ways
that these things can be
lived, and peeking into the
windows of those who live
it every day,
is powerful and intriguing, then we
think you'll find
something interesting here.
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Are you a
writer?
Would-be or
established? Love to
describe all of these Backside of Love
headspaces
, and want a very attentive audience?
Visit
us in the
Kittery, where we've a
Writers Guild, writing
contests, and a lot of readers who understand
you!
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But out here on the
Net, there are also
endless piles of
material that pretend to
be what you're looking
for. There are infinite
websites that spend lots
of money making sure
they came up when you
first searched for the
word spanking.
But did you
tremulously type that
first search, that first
time, because you've
never been able to stop
thinking about the
simple slap of a simple
hand on some simple
skin? No -- this is all far more significant to us,
than simply that.
This is about headspace --
about those shadowy,
quivering, achingly-intense
thoughts of actual,
real, and earned
punishment. Of firm and real discipline
from a firm and real
hand who adores the one
he must punish, and
understands her so well
that he can, and
absolutely will,
be resolute and punish
her thoroughly...
Thoroughly enough that
she will need his
gentleness too, his
gently-strong arms to
bring her back to earth
after the ordeal which
she both loathes, and
craves, in her life.
If that description
touched something deep
inside you, which is
PROFOUNDLY more
meaningful and powerful
(and yes, arousing,
despite being real),
than giggly
slap-and-tickle
schoolgirl fantasies --
and yet also more
meaningful and
emotionally-rich than the
products of the "let's-pay-prostitutes-to-let-us-beat-them-on-video"
spanking
corporations -- then we hope
you've found a home
here.
The
Backside of Love is a concept to us.
We've created a
community and library and family
and magazine that use
the name -- But what it
really is, is an
umbrella term for a
series of
headspaces, in
relationships which
we've found to be the
most moving and
significant things in
all the world.
The Backside
of Love is about
relationships and
headspaces in which one
person gives another
personal authority over them,
submits to their
discipline for enforcing it,
and finds powerful sexuality
and intimacy woven
through those things.
Rather than focus on
particular labels on
relationship, which vary and
can be so subjective, we're
here to explore every
possible aspect of any
lifestyles which are
oriented toward our
umbrella themes.
Whether you call yourself a
submissive, spanko, slave,
woman-child, or
simply an old-fashioned
wife, if the heady auras
surrounding the Intimacy
of Authority
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move you, emotionally and/or
sexually, then you've found
a place that's going to
absolutely revel in those
things, along with you!
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